What your wedding invitations should include
The dates set in stone, the venues booked; the ceremony is arranged now all you need are people to attend. Ideally your invitations will be sent at least one year before the date of your wedding. They should tell your guests everything they need to know about your big day. Follow the headings below to create the perfect invitations for your wedding say!
THE HOST
Traditionally whoever paid for the wedding was the hosts of the big day and therefore named as hosts on the wedding invitation. However, with the splitting of wedding costs to both families, variations of different hosts can leave you a little confused about how best to word them. So we’ve done the work for you.
BRIDE’S PARENTS –
{Carl and Carole Ferguson}
BOTH SETS OF PARENTS –
{Carl and Carole Ferguson}
and
{Doug and Carolyn Simkin}
COUPLE –
{Abbey Ferguson}
and
{John Simkin}
COUPLE & PARENTS –
Together with their parents
{Abbey Ferguson}
and
{John Simkin}
LOCATION
If you are to having ceremony in a place of worship, then the host will request the honour of the guest’s company. If your ceremony is anywhere else, the host will request the pleasure of the guest’s company.
E.G
CHURCH WEDDING / BRIDE’S PARENTS
…request the honour of your company
at the marriage of their daughter
{Abbey Ferguson}
and
{John Simkin}
RESPONSE CARDS
If you know you will have limited seating for the ceremony, you need to know exactly who will be able to attend in advance. This means you can word your invitations like this:
Two seats have been reserved for you
Please reply on or before January 15th 2019
Persons Attending ………
If a meal choice will be offered to your guests this can be included within your RSVP card like this along with your menu
The Courtesy of a reply is requested
By January 15th 2020
Please indicate a number of each…
Meal choice 1 …… Meal Choice 2 ……
We hope you enjoy this blog and start delegating tasks to your friends; it’ll all be rewarded with a wonderful day that everyone can enjoy! We’d love to hear about any suggestions, feedback, or Wedding planning tips you’d like to share. Drop me a line abbey.ferguson@buckatreehallhotel.com
See you next week for more wedding planning tips.